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About shaniya

shaniya started this conversation
Aug 28, 2008

hello every one my name is Chrissy and my fiances name is Jon and we have two kids our oldest is 2 1/2 and my youngest is 5 months old we have no money and no job we are trying everything that we can to make ends meet but it just won't work we pray everyday that we can at least put a meal on the table we have no home we got evicted back in November of 07 and have not been able to get back on our feet  we are currently living with my fiances mother in one room with and one bed we all sleep on the same bed we do not have long to live here with his mother we only had a year to get out of her house and we are close to our dead line please help use  any one this is not a cry for pety this is a cry for help. We go to church every sunday and pray that god just send use a break thru. I know deep down in my heart that our break thru is coming soon. umm! at the present time we have been looking everyday for a job and so far no luck if there is anyone out there that can help me and my family please contact me by email which is     wairc@yahoo.com  please help me get back on my feet so that i can be the best mother that i can be.  God bless every one that reads this letter.

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shaniya
Nov 7, 2008

listen to this you guys out there cant say that me and my babies daddy isn't trying yes i know that i have brought two beautiful girls in this world and i would not take them back for nothing in the world we have to make sacrificies to live so my fiance moved to indianapolis to make a new start so that he can be the man an father that he is suppose to be so chill u guys act like we asked to be damn poor no one ask for this shit it just happens to the best of us so stop jumping on use and i don't live with my mother in law any more i moved out and things are going ok for know um my fiance has gotten a job withen the first 3 days in indianapolis and we will be moving soon to start our lives tanks for all the harsh words you guys gave me instead of understanding my situation.

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PhoenixF1re
Aug 28, 2008

Of course you're going to get the third degree because of your situation. You're living with your mother in law and you're bringing kids into this world when you can even afford a roof over your head. The advice you are going to get here is to get your priorities straight. I said this so many times if you have the energy to make a kid then you have energy to do what you gotta do to make your life better.

Financially you and your man have to help yourselves. He can get a security job, wash a car, clean. Tell him to look here:

http://statesville.jobs.topusajobs.com/

Same goes for you. Make sure you have applied to all the benefits that you are entitled for. Here are the links:

http://www.co.iredell.nc.us/Departments/DSS/dss.asp << All County Agency listings

JOBS

Iredell County JobLink Center Employment Security Commission

1907 Newton Drive

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-878-4241

HOUSING / Shelter /Childcare / Food

I Care, Inc.

PO Box 349

Statesville, NC  28677

Phone:  704-872-8141

Iredell County DSS

PO Box 1146

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-873-5631

 

Crisis Intervention

906 Fifth Street

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-872-4045

Salvation Army

PO Box 91

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-872-5623 

Soup Kitchen

PO Box 467

Statesville, NC 28677

Phone: 704-873-7244

It's up to you now, good luck and if you need more resources, let me know.

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shaniya
Aug 28, 2008
 in response to ekikaseven...   

I am not married  and yes he is in the picture and he goes out every day to try to make ends meet i am just asking for help not for the third degree

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ekikaseven
Aug 28, 2008

Where are your children fathers?  You have a 5 month old, so a man has been in the picture recently.  Where is he?  Do he not provide for his family?  You do not state if you are married or not, are you?  If you are, does your husband work? Can he contribute to the care of his kids?

Just wondering.

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